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infjdoodles:

It was funny getting Jonathan’s perspective—on people we knew that he couldn’t engage with because he got the sense there wasn’t anything there. It was tied to a willingness to engage in an authentic manner, and whether they were interested in connecting. I’ve known many people that seemed shallow but that was only the first layer, I don’t mind waiting to see if there are more layers. Sometimes there are more layers, but at least I’m not usually caught off guard by underestimating someone interesting.